The Dating Game

Why is it that we put ourselves through this silly series of meetings so we can determine our likes and dislikes of posible mates? I am pretty clear on what I want, just haven't found the person that has all the right features and fittings...JO is quite attractive and he is sweet, Blue Eyes is emotionally unavailable and Lars well he's a bit overwhelming but a great catch. I am a serial monogamist. I don't even date two people at the same time. I am getting calls from each one and they are interested but in what?? Me as a person or just hanging out or in sex ??!?!? Who knows?